Authentic rules of parent’s behaviour to rule over the kids –
“Rule of Tangible Treatment and Tactics (Rule of T-3)”What does the rule “Rule of T-3” explain about?
In fact, parents’ behaviour includes everything which is acted upon the kids. Parents’ behaviour is just a kind of treatment with some acts and expressions, through which they try to control, organize and motivate their kids to keep them on the right track. Behaving with kids is common and everywhere but the behaviour accepted by the kids is rarely seen, now.
At present, when the children are more active and intelligent, and getting mental and even physical maturity before time, it is getting harder to act and react with this new generation. On the other hand, all the parents have to accept this responsibility to perform well with their kids because they are ultimately the parents.
Most of the parents apply some tricks and tactics to improve their behaviour but most of them become unable to apply these correctly because there are some factors which effects on their behaviour very much. So mostly, the result is out of expectations.
The rule of T-3 is all about it and gives a great solution for the parents to correct and improve their all time behavioural problems. We must see the definition of it, first.
Definition of “Rule of T-3”
Parents’ behaviour including their all actions, reactions and dialogues, can be precious and perfect for their kids if it is activated -
at the right time
at the right place
with the right link
in the right words
with the right content
in the right expression
in the right expression
at the right situation
among the right people
with the right intention
with the right intention
and, according to the age and experience of the child while considering its all external and internal, physical and spiritual and short-term and long-term impacts on the child.
Explanation
As a parent, you can say here that this is not possible to consider all these given conditions just before the activation of parents’ behaviour, while you are behaving with your kids. In some extant, you are right here but not absolutely right. I would give you my best assurance that if you are ready to follow some simple things here, you can follow this ‘Rule of T-3’ easily and can improve your overall behaviour to rule over your child, efficiently.
Simple instructions to improve the whole behavioural practices of Parents’ as their actions, reactions, dialogues, reward and punishment, through the ‘Rule of T-3’
1. Don’t discuss or behave with your kids in general when you are tempered and your kids are not the reason for the same.
2. Don’t take quick reactions on your kids’ actions and behaviour. Take necessary time to respond.
3. Don’t make quick answer for a question, which has no short answer. Answer that question when both you and your child are relaxed.
4. When you want to share something with your kids like your experiences, thoughts, suggestions or instructions, share them when they are completely calm and in submissive mood and, whatever you say must be logically right.
5. When your child is doing something wrong, stop him, no matter how you can do it but following the second step, don’t forget to convey him the reason for which you had forbidden him, when he is relaxed and completely out of that job which he was doing then.
I hope, you will be able to take some new initiatives now to improve your expressions and behaviour among your kids for getting their best acceptance.
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