10 February 2014

Can parenting be...Stress-less?

Can parenting be…Stress-less?

            In fact, becoming a parent is the easiest job of a normal human being but the most crucial part of this happening is to bear the responsibilities of a parent. Therefore, the situation starts going out of control when the parents are not so experienced and full of practical knowledge and approach. Please don’t get me wrong.

 Someone may know the skills of parenting without becoming a parent but to learn how to parent is possible only after becoming a parent.

            So, being a parent, you too, can understand and improve your parenting skills and remove your errors and stress in time considering some suggestions, given bellow:

  • Deal your child to keep a child inside yourself. Sometimes, just go out of your disciplinary boundary and let your child sought, quarrel and laugh as much as they can (but in the controlled manner). Let yourself laugh when things you try don’t go exactly as planned for your kids.

  • Don’t try to follow you daily routine, strictly, everyday. Make your routine flexible (changed even) when you need by heart to change. It really makes you relax to act and react for your kids.

  • Including your all duties, have a special duty to play with your kids becoming a kid for some time.
  • Don’t overrule your kids or yourself. Be flexible while paying your responsibilities.
  • Whenever you feel over tense, enjoy your hobby or spend some time with your friends.
  • Don’t try to earn that money which is earned on the base of breaking all the relations and peace of life and which causes making someone sick before time and spent then to treat the life, alive. I mean a live on pills.
  • Of course, money is important for life to survive but survival of a human being is much and much more than survival. That more than survival is the actually stress-less.
  • Experience the joys of seeing and feeling your children to grow and develop.
  • Keep consistency in your behaviour and action with your kids.
  • Don’t avoid listening to your kids whether their words are important or not but the most important thing is to listen them, ultimately.
  • Learning how to parent involves considerable trial and error. Therefore, parents should be open to learn how to improve their parenting skills usually become better parents over the course of time.
  • Stress-less parenting requires good relation with spouse. Weak spouse’s relation hampers family-support system.
  • In spite of labouring hard to making your kids, ideal kids, try your best yourself to be an ideal parent for your kids.

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