Good parenting Versus Bad parenting

Good Parenting

Bad Parenting

Good parenting Versus 
Bad parenting

          


          We must know this phenomenal fact that no parent is a bad parent in the world, intentionally ( If a parent is intentionally bad for his child is rare and quite conditional). In fact, parents mostly do the things what they understand the best for their kids but due to great variations of experience, education and other aspects, they may not be as good as they understand themselves. They may be wrong or even extremely wrong but their intention again becomes right to do something right.

Parenting is actually not a bookish instructions. It’s just done by all by default, who have kids. That is why the parenting style varies parent to parent according to their personal skills and gives variable results. There are some important variations by which you can better understand about good and bad parenting after reading these points given below :-

1. Good parenting is to invest a lot to make the kids independent. Bad parenting is to collect a lot to do the same.
2. Good parenting involves responsibility. Bad parenting involves duty.
3. Good parenting refers a child as a developing personality. Bad parenting refers a child as a developing man.
4. Good parenting’s precious property is a child. Bad parenting behaves a child as a personal property.
5. Good parenting refers, why and when to respect our elders and older. Bad parenting refers only how to respect them, that’s all.
6. Good parenting stands in between a relation of friendship and a strict supervision. Bad parenting is either a relation of a poor friendship or a strict supervision.
7. Good parenting comes with value and culture. Bad parenting comes with handbook-culture.
8. Good parenting refers a parent as an important part of his family. Bad parenting is not more than a rude administration.
9. When kids get disheartened while doing something, good parenting says –“Don’t worry! You can do it ! Try once again!”  In the same situation, bad parenting says –“It’s time to worry about! It’s hard for you! Don’t waste your time! “
10.  Good parenting is accepting a parent as a role model. Bad parenting is not selecting the role models till the kids become adults.
11. Good parenting is as flexible as binds well and doesn't break due to tension. Bad parenting binds lose due to less flexibility and if tighten hard, breaks off.
12. Good parenting is to behave the kids as a man of future. Bad parenting is to behave the kids as they are kids forever.
13. Good parenting dares not to mould their kids’ ambitions. Bad parenting dares not to go through the kids’ ambitions.
14. The best principle of good parenting is – “we all ought to respect one another “. The best principle of the bad parenting is –“you must respect your parents”.
15. Good parenting includes proper dialogues and conversations. Bad parenting refers hard commands with flat instruction and restrictions which are hardly acceptable.
16. Good parenting refers a moment of joy when a child makes a random statement(without asking) that his/her parents are the best all around the world. Bad parenting refers a salience when the children are asked for the same.

Good parenting moves on with the principle of worthy or non-worthy, or suitable or not suitable in terms of kids learning. Bad parenting moves around the principle of good or bad, or wrong or right. 

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