Parents’ great specialities
which rank them- ‘God’
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You will have known the simplest meaning of ‘God’. Here ‘G’ stands for Generator, ‘O’ for Operator and ‘D’ stands for Destroyer. I don’t know who help God to pay his duty of Operation and Distortion but I can say confidently that the Duty of Generation of God has been directly handed over to the parents of all the species of the world as human beings and God never interferes the parents to carry their this valuable responsibility.
In fact there are a lot of things which separate a parent from caretakers. And, it’s not possible for me to define in totality the heartiest passion, love and feelings of a parent but I can dare to summaries some recognized practices of a parent, which can undoubtedly prove their great specialities for which they are ranked as ‘God’.
1. Parents grant a boon of a chance of life to a new one to browse a new world: - It’s surprising to know that within every 100 years, 99.99 % of the people are replaced by the new people. And the generator of this new generation is none other than the parents. But who cares about it! We all ought to accept this fact as a reason that the people, who are ready to save our next generation, must be worshiped and respected by us. But who are those people? Those are our parents.
2. Parents agree with everything for their kids without agreement: - This is, too, a great speciality of a parent. Whatever they pay their kids, they pay without agreement. I just remember my father, who had his lunch and dinner always after having of us and when I was studying at Patna, he continuously sent me Rs.2000/- per month for my management study, when he was jobless than. Could anybody do that for me then? I didn't know that time but now I know well the fact. What’s important to know here is that all the parents are same for their kids as my father. They purely love, care, support and become always ready to sacrifice their everything for their kids. After parents it is done only by God. Now, you have to decide how you should deal with your parents.
3. They are the first and the last believer and trust of their children: - Have you seen a baby crying in all the helping hands and sudden stopping of his crying when lapped by his Mom? What a magic is this! It’s just called the faith, trust and a great bond of love in between a child and his parent. The secret of this great bond is not easily understandable, but the difference can be seen, easily. Have you not seen ever a child without parents?
4. Parents pay more than their 100 percent: - Have you seen ever a parent like this, before? A father, who buys clothes for all his children but don’t buy any for himself or who pays his duty double on the eve of any festival or he is doing overtime when has been prescribed by the doctor to take bed rest. If you are not a parent, you cannot imagine these crucial efforts of a parent. These efforts of a parent are more than 100%.
Have you observed a mother during pregnancy, how she performs her all responsibilities on a risk or a mother during the delivery period when she cries to birth a baby for hours but don’t quit the situation or a mother of a new born baby who can’t sleep hole day and night due to caring a new born baby?
I can’t explain the greatness of this bearing and dedication of a parent, in words but the people, who don’t understand these great deeds of the parents, they must understand now that why we should respect, care and love our parents.
5. They, frequently, may do something wrong with their kids but do completely with right intention:- A friend of mine, who is now a doctor ,explains a scene always whenever he meets me. The incident is about his first but the last smoking experience when he was caught red-handed by his father. His father had beaten him so bitterly that he had been on bed for many days. And that was the day when his father sobbed for him and bought a new branded bicycle for him. Now, what can I add here to mean myself? In fact, a parent knows well the limitation and bad impact of lose deals and sweet behavior and that is why, they keep their love inside and look hard and fast always. But what does matter is their right intention towards kids.
6. Parents are not replaceable: - Sometimes kids complain about their parents that they are not perfect and I accept it. Parents; as others, may be short-tempered, rude, less- educated or less- experienced and even a bad people of society. But we must not forget here that they are not replaceable. More or less, their words, actions or behaviour can be avoided if they are not practical or perfect but, as a parent, they must be regarded and prayed again as a parent because they are not replaceable at all.
Now, it depends upon you what you get right and what not and if you don’t get here any right reason to love and care your parents, I’ll wait till you have kids your own.
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