Recognizing teenage…At first !
In fact, the role and the responsibility of a parent
continuously change according to the changes of the growth of their children.
On the other hand, requirement of a child less than one year is different from
a child of five-year old or a teenager but a parent has to handle and care
his/her all aged children all time, ultimately.
In the
entire section of ‘Teenage-Parenting’, we will discuss a lot about teenage
which has become an art and science in new era but this preview is specially
reviewed to know all about the characteristics of a teenage, itself.
What does 'Teen-age' mean?
a) The age between 12 and 18: It’s a phase of age
between the Late-childhood and young-adulthood. When a person goes over the age
of eighteen means he or she is in the age of majority. Thus, the duration
starting from late-childhood and reaching the age of puberty is teen-age.
Normally, the age between to 18 is considered as adolescence age (teen-age).
b) Age of hormone: Teen age is normally an age of
big physical changes and new hormonal secretion. These physical changes bring a
lot of other changes in thought, behaviour and attitudes of teens. Teens start
to show their interest in sex, over this age. This is the age of the fastest mental and
physical growth of a person in his all life.
A teenager requires to be dealt as an adult
and on the other hand, they are not always ready to be treated as an adult.
This age is a phase of balancing of the two major phases of life that is the
childhood and adulthood.
c) Age of peers and friends: Feeling of acceptance
and deny by peers are always crucial for teens. They are tensed and abnormal
when they feel themselves different from their peers. That is why this phase of
life is also recognized as the phase of addictions.
d) Age of emotion:
teenagers are mostly more emotional than adults. Emotional matters make teens
more tensed and abnormal. Their feeling, listening and offering mostly demand
acceptance.
f) Age of irritation, worries and curiosities:
Transformation from the childhood to adulthood brings a lot of irritation and
worries for teens. They always look for the new ways. They apply abstract
thinking to values, morals, authority-issues, empathy, relationship and
justice. They present new philosophies and create theory of theories.
g) Age of arguments and conflicts:
Teens are more anger than adults. They are mostly intimidating for the parents
and the parents may also be intimidating for their teens. Teens are, in fact,
the learners for future so they naturally operate the thing or situation with a
lot of arguments. They accept the things easily but mostly after a logical
argument.
e) Age of accepting risks: Teens
are more energetic, curious and less confused (due to less knowledge and
experience) so they take risks, easily. There is no any limit of a risk taken
by a teenager. They can be a smoker, drunker, drug-user or a sexual-abuser.
Teenagers can be miss-leaded, miss-used or miss-guided easily because the take
risks easily.
f) Teens are hard to understand:
Most of the parents and even the teachers and other family members, fail to
understand what acts and blooms in the heart of a teenager. They are veteran to
hide the facts.
g) Age of freedom-feeling:
Due to less or absence of major responsibilities, teen-age is a natural
freedom-feeling phase of life. And if the teens are tried to restrict, they
mostly argue with the parents and defence themselves, angrily.
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